Long Distance Dad Entry 1 (of many? :D )

I have yet to hold my son in my arms and it makes me both lonely and excited.

As soon as our plans were coming into fruition, I knew we were going to be apart for a while and no matter what I say to myself for reassurance, there is no preparing for the challenges to face as a long distance dad.

There are times where it is frustrating because all you want to do is help and be there for them but sadly that cannot be the case. Sometimes there will be arguments that may cause tension but above else, our son will always be the source of strength and happiness for us. Maintaining this emotional bond and showing them care and affection is very important.

We are, in a way, in a long distance relationship for the long run. And keeping (and maintaining) a long distance relationship is never easy – it requires a huge amount of effort. Understanding the issues and being supportive at a time when they need you (or don't at all) is the foundation of a healthy relationship. 


-Chady

Place to be for Sneakerheads: Apparently Airports

I've been to airports for work and for leisure a number of times now these past couple of years and it just occurred to me that it's the by far a sneakerheads best place to flex their kicks (and the spot to stalk and spy on other sneakerheads and kicks as well).

I know I was off by like...six years on this. (Sue me haha) but thinking about it now it is indeed super ideal as you're always guaranteed clean, shiny areas so you won't get creases or grime on them (for the conscious sneakerhead) and if you're on the Gram, there are plenty of ideal spots you can take that sweet pic in but by far, the greatest thing I've ever done was snoop on other shoewhores and see what they were rocking. As I post this, the most trending and most often shoe I can find were the AJ1 lows of varying colors but occasionally, you'll get to see ones that stand out (J4 breds, Kobe Protros) and ones that rock AJ1 Shattered Backboards (I gave this guy a thumbs up. I think he nodded but I'm sure he got creeped out because he immediately transferred a seat when we met eyes. If by any chance he's reading this, sorry man! I don't hate, I appreciate.)

 I don't know about you but I just found my new favorite pastime whenever I'm at airports. Can't wait for the next time I travel with my fiance to do this. Peace.


Here are a few shots of my stalking around hehe

The aforementioned AJ1 Low. Very popular these days.

The Shattered Backboard guy. Dude bolted off after this. Sorry!

Kobe AD Exodus The Military Blue colorway. Looks better in person.

#12years : I Guess That Was That

Twelve years ago, I had this crush on a girl.
She was pretty. She was feisty. She was fun to be with.
So naturally, I asked her if she wanted to be something more.
She declined...So I guess that was that.

But as I remember, she didn't really say no to me outright.
She said to me I wasn't the one she was looking for at that time
and unfortunately, there was this fiasco which made us stop talking altogether.
So I guess that was that.

I said to myself maybe I'll get another chance. I'll wait it out.
And so I did wait. Maybe she'll come around.
But then again, life happens. So we moved on.
So I guess that was that.

Over the years, we did reconnect. We talked.
Don't get me wrong,  I would also flirt with her.
But it was all in good, clean fun. We were good friends after all.
So I guess that was that.

A lot of things have happened since then and I would rather not mention them.
So much can happen in twelve years. But I always liked that
whenever I had problems, I could always talk to her.
So I guess that was that.

For a really long time, that's all I had.
I had these moments with a girl who saw me as a friend.
But of course, fate has other plans. And I asked her out again.
After twelve years. So I guess that was that.

I assume a lot of people are going to tell me I'm crazy why I
waited so long to ask her out. I would know that because from
then till now...She has been calling me crazy ever since.
So I guess that was that.

But even then, I think I knew, from the bottom of my heart
That I was already waiting for the love of my life.
So I guess that was that.

And I guess this is my now.
Twelve years later.

Background:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oxoqm05c7yA

憂鬱 - Sun

-Chady