Long Distance Dad Entry 1 (of many? :D )

I have yet to hold my son in my arms and it makes me both lonely and excited.

As soon as our plans were coming into fruition, I knew we were going to be apart for a while and no matter what I say to myself for reassurance, there is no preparing for the challenges to face as a long distance dad.

There are times where it is frustrating because all you want to do is help and be there for them but sadly that cannot be the case. Sometimes there will be arguments that may cause tension but above else, our son will always be the source of strength and happiness for us. Maintaining this emotional bond and showing them care and affection is very important.

We are, in a way, in a long distance relationship for the long run. And keeping (and maintaining) a long distance relationship is never easy – it requires a huge amount of effort. Understanding the issues and being supportive at a time when they need you (or don't at all) is the foundation of a healthy relationship. 


-Chady