A Prelude & A Lesson - About Admitting Love and Doing Shit Now

This serves as a (rather vague) definition to the upcoming post "Closure and Revelations"

We have friends. Human beings that you feel comfortable being around with because they understand you.

And then there are best friends. The ones that tease you with no remorse, the ones who insult you just because they could, the ones that you argue where to eat and what to do. These people share your interests, admire the things you can do (In turn, you admire them for what they can do to like art and caring), participate in your life events like weddings and funerals. This are the ones that make you go 'hmmmm...' and your mind plays out about a hundred scenarios that you and that person could be spending together, the times you could be having, the moments you could be sharing. Eventually because of all the closeness(not to mention boobs and hormones), you want to be something more.

As this feeling reaches this point, I CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH how important it is to tell this person how you feel BUT it should be done at the right time, even the right place (venue helps set the mood, dude...) and when you've planned it, By God, follow through. Don't wait it out.

 Of course, there are sooo many things to consider like thinking of the what if's but not of the the what could be's, the ripple effect it might do to your social standing and your circle of friends. Most important of course is what it means for the both of you. If you're afraid what may happen to your relationship, either good or bad  (hell, maybe even both), that it will change...at least you'll know (and she'll know, too). I've reached a point in my life that I need to do shit  when shit needs to be done. There is no point to the wait anymore...because waiting hurts. And let me tell you  personally, from first hand experience, that once you're able to tell that person how you feel, it's a huge weight off your chest (of course, the incoming response is the next nailbiter but that's not the point here)

MY POINT is you gotta man up...because at this point in time, you should start taking action to what you want in life.

By the way, Happy New Year guys!

I hope I can send out more content here. <=yet another failing new years resolution
in the making

Peace Out!


-Chady